Education

Sunny is a kink and BDSM educator! Check out her blog and sign up for her mailing list for notifications about her live and virtual events!  Mailing list here! The classes listed here include a sampling of current offerings however custom classes and topics are negotiable on a case-by case basis. Ask about our advanced content for experienced audiences. Special events hosted by Sunny are available to orgs and conventions. The listed events are samples and may be customized based on the event. Most current classes are presented collaboratively with Sunny’s pet, and mate, Oximus.

Kink and BDSM Classes

Sensual BDSM: So much more than a sensation play class, learn how to harness all five senses and sensory deprivation for more intense scenes,  sensual sadism, and mind fuckery. Learn from a sensual sadist about the impact of creating contrast between pleasure and pain, anticipation and action. Suitable for all levels of experience.  CW:  impact, wax, temperature play, food play, fear play, bondage, hypnosis, and knives.

Drugs, Dreams, Delirium, and Desire: Have a sleeping beauty fetish? Curious about sedation, delirium, or sleep, for sexy play? Did you know that actual substances are not required to explore these dark erotic fantasies? Join Sunny and Ox to learn about consensual non consent (CNC), incapacitation role play. We’ll cover a range of scene ideas, practical considerations, and negotiation strategies. As always, lots of fun and sexy demos.

Body Contact, the Electric Kind: Come learn about violet wand body contact cable play! In this 201 violet wand class we’ll explore risk mitigation and use of body contact cables, spicy sensation play, pervertible and accessories, group play, and electric predicaments! Hands on opportunities to experience the violet wand.

All Dolled Up: Come learn about dollification for both hypnotic and non-hypnotic play! For dolls and doll makers alike, or simply those curious about doll play, this class will cover many aspects of making dolly fantasy a reality. Learn about doll dressing, doll posing, dolly bondage, hypnotic dollification and more! CW: hypnotic language and demonstration, minimal nudity, impact, bondage.

Hips That Definitely Lie: Sunny has learned a thing or two about wiggling her hips over the years. Hip movement and mobility is a skill that benefits folks for all types of sexy play! Learn to isolate and move your hips and pelvis for fucking in all sorts of positions. This is not just a dance class!  We’ll be learning to better isolate and move our hips and pelvis and applying this skill to hip movement for sexy time.  Techniques to try for givers and receivers with all sorts of bits!! Feel free to bring your strap or other designer parts to class if you like!

Dipping Toes and Diving In: Join Sunny and Ox for a chat about attending events as a newcomer to the scene or just to larger events! We’ll talk about etiquette for play spaces and classes, protecting your privacy, pacing and frenzy, affirming language when asking for things, strategy for negotiation, consent, and more! We’ll also talk about noping out and accepting no with grace! Not sure where to begin or interested in optimizing your time? We’ll cover some basics and leave plenty of time for Q and A and giggle about some learning moments for Sunny and Ox in their own adventures. We’ve been down the rabbit hole a long time and we promise, there are no silly questions!

The More the Merrier: Join us to explore scene design for group play! We’ll talk about the sexy, the awkward, and of course, strategy! Learn how to create a fluid interaction with more than one dynamic at play. We’ll also discuss negotiation strategies and the art of blending a variety of sexual preferences with grace.  Giggle at some of Sunny and Ox’s learning moments during their adventures with menage.

Suffering, Sadism, and Sexytimes: Pain is a whole spectrum of sensation, and so much suffering isn’t pain at all. Join Sunny and Ox for an exploration of suffering in all its forms. We’ll cover physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual (ordeal) suffering for kink and connection. We’ll even touch on “gasp” top suffering. If you’ve ever witnessed an ouchie scene and wondered “why in the world might someone?” or if S/m play and are curious about a new take on creative sadistic play, this class is for you.  We’ll also talk about the overlap between dynamic and sadistic play, maintaining intimacy, aftercare, and all-the-time care in relationships that include S/m. As always, lots of spicy demos. 

Masters and Padawans: What happens when you’re so far down the rabbit hole that you can’t see the light of day and vanilla isn’t even a flavor you recognize, but the universe grants you a wonderful partner who is brand new to kink? Join Sunny and her submissive Ox, who will share some giggles and insights about their adventures. We’ll discuss the difference between submissive training and mentorship, strategies for bridging the experience gap, and the general rewards and struggles of building a dynamic from the ground up. Enjoy spicy demos and give tips for crafting sexy scenes that reinforce the dynamic at each stage of the game.

Bottoms Up: We’ve all heard it before. “Receiving X is only for bottoms,” or “giving X is a Top thing.”  *Major eyeroll.* Yes, Sunny is a top, a brat, and of the opinion that these statements couldn’t be further from the truth! Join her and her submissive Ox on a hedonistic mission to disprove the idea that any kink or sex act automatically conveys dynamic. This class will be loaded with fun and sexy demos where we’ll blur the lines between giving and receiving WITHOUT any switching of dynamic or roles!

Lap Dances for Lay People: Come explore sensual movement for sexy times with a partner or partners! We’ll cover easy ways make movement sensual, movement as foreplay (or the main event), and even ways that sexy lap dancing or sensual movement can convey and reinforce dynamic! This class is designed to be accessible for all levels of mobility. Zero experience required. Attend with or without a partner and participate to your own comfort level in this sexy and interactive class! Don’t want to dance, that’s Ok! Dance along, receive a dance from a companion, or just come and enjoy she show!

Primal and Sacred Sexuality Workshops:

Primal Fantasies: Do you have an inner beast? How about a desire to be free from inhibition when you play?  From CNC hunting play to breeding, come learn about what it means to be primal. We’ll discuss primal relationship dynamics, physical play, and primal lifestyle. This is an updated class with plenty of live demos. Lots of new adventures to share!

Beastly Desires : What happens when we let our inner beasts out to play, or issue a challenge to a partner’s beast? Take a deeper dive into primal play. Join Sunny for an exploration of rough body play, struggle play, and CNC (consensual non-consent) play as part of primal exchange. We’ll also dig in to the ways this type of play reinforces primal relationship dynamics, and the ways primality can bleed into other types of D/s exchange. This class will include discussion and demonstration of advanced play and it is recommended for participants who already have very strong negotiation skills, agency, and an awareness of their personal risk profile.  CW:  CNC play, hunting play, rough body play, claw knives, breath restriction.

Sex Magic and Intimate Energy Exchange: Sometimes human energy, or the energy in a shared space seems palpable. Some believe this isn’t imagined at all, and in fact, the energy can be exchanged or harnessed with intent. In this class, we’ll discuss and practice techniques for intimate energy exchange and the harnessing of energy created during sex for manifestation. Well also discuss risk profile around the sharing of energy and allowing another person into our energetic space. This interactive and inclusive class is NOT a lecture and will not focus on any one spiritual path. Solo participation is welcome but consider attending with a partner or friend who is welcome in your energy space.

Primal Movement for Manifestation and Trance: Movement can allow for deep connection with ourselves, our partners, nature, or the universe itself. It can be a tool for manifestation, enhance intimate energy exchange, and even facilitate connection with others for the purposes of shared ritual.  Movement can be a path to descend into primality and shed human taboo. Join Sunny and her mate Ox in an exploration of movement for trance and ritual. This is a hands on activity, and will be accessible for all abilities and levels of movement. Feel free to bring a blanket if you like to floor sit. No prior trance or movement experience required.

Intermediate to Advanced Hypnosis

Hypnosis for Sensual Kink: A companion class to our sensual BDSM class! Learn how to harness all five senses and sensory deprivation for more intense scenes, increased intimacy, sensual sadism, and mind fuckery. This time we’ll focus on accomplishing all of this with hypnosis. Learn how to make your HYPNO scenes a full mind, body, spiritual experience. Suitable of all levels of experience. CW: May include discussion of impact, wax, temperature play, fear play, bondage, knives, orgasm, and CNC. Hypnotic language and demonstration.

Hypnotic Hunting: Primal play can be physically intense but it doesn’t have to be! In fact, you can hunt your prey entirely in the mind. Come learn about the use of hypnosis for primal play and hunting scenes! Will include demo and discussion of hypnotic transformation play, hunting play, fear play, and primal mating play. and include a (totally voluntary!) opportunity for group trance. While our Primal Fantasies class has a focus on primal living and physical primal play, this class is a deep dive on primal hypnosis! CW: CNC, fear, hunting, hypnotic language and demonstration.

Dolled All The Way Down: This class is a fun and sexy exploration of hypnotic dollification. We’ll move beyond roleplay to the process of building (or becoming) a doll completely in the mind! We’ll also cover combining hypnosis with physical dolly play such as dressing and posing. This class will be enjoyable for dolls and dollmakers of all skill levels. CW: hypnotic language and demonstration, minimal nudity, impact, bondage.

Rough Body Trance Play: Bites and blows can be so much more when trance is involved! Come explore rough body trance play. Primal play can involve sparring with the body or with the mind. This class explores where these practices intersect. We’ll work with kinesthetic triggers in a primal context and take our trance to the forest floor in this interactive class! CW: Rough body play, grappling, biting, power exchange.

Sensual Movement and Dance for Trance: Learn about uses of sensual movement and dance for trance! NO DANCING REQUIRED. Dance along, or just hang out and watch the demos! Choose your own adventure for this fun and sexy class! We’ll talk about how to make movement more sensual, and how sensual movement can be used for trance on both sides of the slash. Class will be accessible for all levels of movement ability. If you would like to dance along, having a stable chair/stool and comfy clothes will be helpful but are not required. CW: Hypnotic language, partial nudity, hypnotic bondage, orgasm, impact, sensory (music).

Bubbles Sensual and Sadistic: Bubbles aren’t just for bimbos, in fact they can be quite sadistic. Imagine if the bubbles had a bit of bite to them or carried electrical current? What would happen if they simply became vectors for sensation? Whether you’re a little who simply loves bubbles or into hardcore S/M, join us to explore the use of bubbles as inductions, triggers for kinesthetic and sensual experiences, bondage devices, and more. CW: May include themes of bondage, sadomasochistic play, power exchange, kinesthetic play, mention of littles/ddlg. May include demos with orgasm. Will include hypnotic language/demonstration. Also, if bubble words are a trigger for you- words such as P-O-P, be aware we may use them.

Special Events:

Service and Spanks: Join hosts Sunny and Ox for a high protocol experience! Attend as a service human and receive correction for errors in service, or attend as a Dominant to receive service and administer that correction. This inclusive and accessible high protocol event will be slightly gamified and designed to provide fun for singles and partners alike. Color coded stickers will help to indicate which sort of interactions are welcome during the first phase of the event, and matches in the second half (for punishment) will be bottom led. All participants must adhere to the correct arrival times and participate in the consent discussion before participation.

Dungeon Dance Card Mixer: Part mixer, part matchmaking party. A barrier in D/s speed dating and matchup events is often the lower percentage of participating bottoms and bottoms being bombarded with an overwhelming number of requests! Check out this bottom-agency centered event hosted by Sunny and Ox! Everyone will participate in a brief review of strategies for consent, inclusive/ gender affirming negotiation, and noping out with grace. Dominants and switches looking to top will fill out card signs indicating offerings (impact, rope, e-stim, or any other event-permitted scene skill), as well as other play partner preferences. Bottoms (and switches looking to bottom) can then peruse the offerings and strike up a conversation. If it’s a match, add each other to a timeslot on your dungeon dance card for the dungeon party later in the weekend! Sunny and Ox will remain available for support and guidance for anyone wanting help with negotiation or scene development!

Guided Ritual for Self Expression and Authenticity: Ever wanted to participate in a sex magic, or other group ritual but hesitated because you weren’t sure what you were getting yourself into? Join Sunny and Ox for a guided ritual experience. We’ll break down some of the most common and important elements of group ritual as we work  to foster greater understanding of consent practices in ritual spaces, ways to contribute to rituals, and way to hold personal boundaries in a group ritual space. We’ll build a ritual step by step with explanation and guidance along the way. Our goal will be to manifest the ability for everyone to live freely and joyfully as their most authentic self! This ritual will not focus on any one spiritual path and we’ll include many ways to engage, spicy or otherwise!. All are welcome! No partner required! *Ask about a custom ritual designed for your event!

Primal Hunt: Multiple levels of engagement available ranging from touch to takedown. Choose chase and capture or hide and seek models.